How to deal with insecure person?

The answer is you can't in a normal way

How to find if the person is insecure or not?

    As much as I would like to speak it for hours there are few pieces of evidences which proves a person to be under the cloud of insecure. Having experienced it in one hand I can be very assured of the things I am willing to share to the greater crowd:

• The person always will never appreciate achievements of the closed ones since they will feel they didn't do one like you did.
• The person will always try to show they are competitive but on real note terms they aren't and just bluffing themselves and everyone around them to just make it a showoff.
• The person will never think about the hardships others have to go through and for most times they will be self serving people and it will start to impact with the closed ones sooner or later.
• The person will be demanding something to ask for something and they will be addicted to some thing always to keep them fueled along the way.
• The person will never look up for something until or unless there is something for them or about them.
• 'The person will always expects them to be praised on all occasion even if they have not yet raised.
• The person will be very short sighted and will go all ends to make sure that they do not follow anyone but themselves.
• The person of course will have slightest of the care to their closed ones but there will be  a boundary which will only share them and no others
• The person will be having serious confusion between possessiveness and caring which ultimately makes the people around them uncomfortable and irritating.

Let me stop right there since there are many more ways you can observe that insecure person coming and sharing some information with you.

Now that we are pretty familiar with the kind of person who possess the above symptoms will get themselves classified as insecure ones we must understand the consequence we keep them closer and make decision wrong. This person might be closer person or even parents or your life partner whoever it might be they must be handled and taken care in a different way to make sure that you are not losing them at any point of time. At the end of the day they are also normal people like you and me and they have certain things to run for and the only thing differentiates us from them is that behavior

I have many times wondered how come they people with high in secureness hold off and scrape off emotions just to make sure that their goals are always reachable